Does he really like you? (girlfriend.com.au)
When a guy likes you, it's not all about flowers, romantic dinners or night-time walks on the beach (like you see in the movies).
Guys are shy when it comes to girls - BUT they do give you subtle clues! It's time to get into your sexy detective mode and spot the clues. Here's what to look out for…
Clue 1 - A promise is a promise
A classic sign that a guy is keen on you is if he chooses your company over an activity he absolutely digs! For example, your crush has promised to teach you how to surf on a day that all his mates are at the beach. He sticks by you even though he'd rather be enjoying the surf with his mates.
Clue 2 - The nudge factor
For some reason, most guys have a problem with showing affection in public (especially if they're in front of their mates), which is why they give you the odd nudge or playful punch. Even though they can't wait to do so, guys need a reason to touch you. Look out for this clue after you say something funny or cute.
Clue 3 - In denial
No matter what he says to you in private or the way he acts when you're one on one, he will always deny the way he feels to his mates. The more he denies it, the more he likes you. This is a thing that guys do to show that they haven't gone all soft because of a girl.
Clue 4 - Making an effort
Guys will always make an effort when he feels strongly for a girl. A classic sign is if he asks you to share on of his passions with him. For example, if he asks you to watch him play footy. This shows that he wants to spend time with you, and wants you involved in his life.
Clue 5 - His mates
Your crush's mates will always give off some vibes for you to read into. Have you ever wondered why all his mates laugh and carry on when you walk past, even though you haven't said a word? Don't take this personally, they are just egging your crush on because they know how he feels about you.
Now that you know what to look out for, it's time to use these clues and win over your crush. Let's face it - if you've noticed these clues already, it's not going to be that hard for you!
Detective Description - Confident
Be assertive. If you're comfortable around him, why not ask him out? Guys like it when they don't have to worry about asking a girl out on a date. Invite him to the beach or the local cinema for a fun night out!
Detective Description - Shy
Girls are most comfortable when they have people to lean on - this is where your friends come into the picture. Organise a group outing, or invite him to a friend's birthday bash. You'll be able to have a decent conversation and can even get your friends to suss him out.
Detective Description - Scared to death!
If the thought of asking your crush out terrifies you, then it might be worth giving out the subtle clues yourself. Try nudging him when he tells a funny joke, or commenting on how much you both have in common. Hopefully he can read into your body language and will have enough confidence to ask you out.
Once you've received the pash from your crush you've been working towards, consider the mission to be complete! Good Luck Girlfriend Detectives!
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