late dinner.

the partner and i had dinner at jb together with his parents.
good food and good company and good time and good night.

when the four of us are out together,
others might mistaken me and the partner as siblings.
and i can see girls trying to flirt with him.
or guys trying to flirt with me.

one thing they are missing out is that we are happily attached.

well,
that happens to everyone.
they already have a boyfriend or girlfriend,
but the way they see you,
you just know it,
their eyes are trying to tell you something.

i know it's natural for guys to scan around,
can't they just control them?
a glance is ok.
but keep looking at the girl is a big no-no!

for girls too,
they are happily in the arm of their boyfriend,
but the way they look at other guys,
ladies, i'm sure you understand what i mean.

maybe we all should go around wearing sunglasses to avoid any eye contact.
haha!

i have no problems at them looking.
just try to acknowledge his/her significant other.
after looking at the unavailable eye candy,
turn your head towards the significant other and give a polite smile.
perhaps for a sign of respect.
i tell you,
if someone were to smile at me after looking at my partner,
i will feel much better.
i won't feel invisible.
honestly,
i feel angry when they don't acknowledge me.

are you guys trying to get the message?

i can't stand it especially when their body language suggested that they are flirting with the partner.
when i see that happening,
i would look and smile at the partner who looked back at me alarmed,
not knowing that the girl is flirting with him.
it's already proven scienifically that females are much better at understanding people's actions.
if he notices,
he knows i'm looking at him.

"Women are said to be better at distinguishing between the fleeting expressions that cross our faces every day. According to Professor Simon Baron-Cohen at the Autism Research Centre, Cambridge University, this is because empathy comes naturally to women while men are wired to understand how things work.
On average women are empathisers. They are better at accurately guessing other people's emotions and responding appropriately.
Men are typically systemisers. That is they're better at investigating how a system works. They like to get deeply involved in activities such as car repair, computing or building up an extensive music collection."

adapted from http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/

it's already 3 and i'm getting sleepy.

honey,
it's been extravagantly fanciful!
i know there is no one in this world who could love me like you do.
i love you forever.