slack

with our hectic schedules,
both the partner and i don't have much freedom to spend time with one another like we used to.
the days that guarantee me to see him is only the weekends.
the weekdays are pretty unpredictable.
it's not that bad though cause we still communicate with one another.
i should be thankful that he's done with his ns.

i'm sure it's hard for my girlfriends who has a boyfriend in ns,
they had to occupy their time with something else so as to lessen their misses for their other half.
i never experienced it but i feel for them.

yesterday,
i went over to his house for a kenduri (family gathering)
by now, i know most of his relatives.
yesterday was a little awkward because i'm not too sure who to hang out with.
the adults or the children.
i was stuck in the middle.
if i don't help out in the kitchen,
it will portray a certain impression. (eg, laziness, etc)
if i don't mingle around, again it arouses another impression.
i balanced it out and
alhamdulliah,
it went well.
i foresee more of it in the future.

every sunday is a slacking day.
happy slacking!