cathing up

that one fine day.

initially i was to meet up my poly mates to catch up.
nearing to the date,
it seems that most of us are busy with our own things.
and we abandoned the plan.
thus i was totally planless (apart from finishing assignments or do some readings) when someone called and made me excited about her story.
we had a good catch up over lunch.
it was so good to know that her life is going on as it should.
stressed yet sweet.

while we were having our lunch,
i can't help but noticed that there were 2 kids who were sitting behind us, were running around.
one even touch his shoes and took it out.
the other wandering somewhere.
obviously, there were super active kids.
i didn't really pay much attention to them as i was too engrossed exchanging views.
until one of the kids that ran pass our table touched estya's food.
i got mad.
really.
that was when i decided to scrutinize on them.
actually, they are twin.
i looked over estya's shoulder to see there were 4 adults of which 1 is a male.
i supposed the male was the twin's brother.
because firstly, he was young,
secondly, he was sort of controlling the kids, going after the kids.
what gave away was that he was carrying a ladies' handbag.
then i realised he was the father.
i then looked out for the mother.
i was simply stunned!
why?
because the mother looked way younger than me, below her twenties, about 18-19.
and she already has a twin that is about 4 years old.
to add on, very uncontrollable little kids.
not that i couldn't stand active kids.
it was that their parents didn't disipline them enough.
and let me show you my points.
told you that one of the twin took out his shoes with his hands right?
the shoes already has germs.
he touched it (the germs).
mind you,
it was at the foodcourt.
then i'm sure he will eat something using hands with is filled with the germs.
ok i shall not go on from here.
you get the picture?
next,
an accident might occur.
people might carried hot soup and the kids might knocked against them.
get the next picture?
i believe that when the kids are not well disciplined,
they will turn out to be nasty adults.
and the mom shouldn't just sit around and watch her husband running around for the kids.
she should play her part, the role as a mother.
she's young, she's supposed to have more energy.

i tell,
if they were my kids,
i already made them cry and punish them.
i can't stand impolite kids.
it does reflect badly on the parents.

why did i bring up the issue?
kids who are active and the parents do nothing about it are irritating.
=)
take care of your child please.

sweetheart,
charmed me with your charms.
i love you honeybon!