the girl who deserved it.
i really don't mind having this for my birthday gift.
heh.
the unwillingblooddonation has made me feel hungry whenever i wake up and whenever i'm heading to bed.
can't we ever have a peaceful one?
exams is coming right up.
urgh.
why most of us dislikes exams?
it all boils down to the results.
the results that shows whether you are smart or you are dumb.
and i know it hurts to be labelled 'dumb'.
smart = been attentive in lectures, did your readings religiously and know the subject in depth
dumb = you're just been slacking lazily throughout the semester.
so in order to get good grades,
you revise like hell.
because when you see the ugly grades,
automatically you'll be depressed and you try to get away from studying which will then prevent you from getting a better results.
it is a cycle.
because you think that you're lousy at studies and why should you push yourself more and in the end lose your interest in studying.
maybe that's the key reason why people keep failing.
they had interest in studying but along the way, they lose it.
maybe all they need is a lot of encouragement and a little reward.
when most of us are younger,
whenever you get good results,
your parents would try to reward you with gifts.
thus the motivation for studying very hard just to get good marks.
now when you're all grown up,
there is seldom such material things as reward.
some people may lost their drive to do well.
my point is:
it's natural to dislike exams.
maybe humans are innate with a knowing that whenever there is fear, there is stress.
think about it.
why do some people get stressed at work?
because they want to measure up to their employer's expectations and he/she fear of losing one's job.
same goes in studies, relationship, families, etc.
the word is expectation.
we all have a role to play and we try our very best not to tarnish the different roles that we're carrying out.
as well as we can,
we want to remain in other's good books.
we want to be liked.
shall i say,
this is because we are brought in such an environment where there are expectation?
imagine living in a world with no expectation?
we can be free!
ok readers,
that's the thought for today.
so sweetheart, perhaps a gift if i do well?
haha.
:P
don't worry it goes the same for you.
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