everyone has something that they like about the opposite sex that make them attracted to them.
some goes for the eyes, the hair, the smile, the height, etc.
as for me,
i don't really know what it is.
maybe it's the whole face?
i don't know.
i am not trying to emphasize on outer/physical beauty but isn't that how you get people attracted to you?
like, the first thing they look then they decide whether they want to get to know the person better.
but then again,
not really,
because those with exciting personalities can also attract you.
so maybe after you are attracted to the person,
the next question to ask: chemistry.
is there chemistry between the two of you?
like can the both of you connect?
are the both of you on the same wavelength?
i think from here,
this is where inside jokes occurs.
of course we can never find a perfect match for our personality,
so next up,
can the both of you give and take?
it is how the two of you work out and fine tuned to make it useful for your relationship.
and lastly,
do you really, really, really want to grow old with the person?
and ask yourself 'why?'
as for me,
i do much thinking and come up with a list that my husband need to have.
1. to pray and be able to guide me closer to the Almighty.
2. to respect me and my elders.
3. be honest with me.
4. can talk to me about anything.
5. love me wholeheartedly.
and lastly,
it will be a bonus if he is pleasant looking.
if he wants me,
he needs to have the above qualities.
if you can see,
i don't ask for money and for things that can be perishable.
all i need is to have a real person with feelings who is willing to share his life with me and who is willing to protect and love me.
i have no idea whether my husband will have a list of qualities that is needed,
but if he does,
i hope i can fulfill it.
i know the most important thing for me to do is to take care of him, shower him with love and treat him like how a husband is supposed to be treated.
i just want my life on earth to be as heavenly as possible and make his life as heavenly as possible too.
every girl's wish is to get married and look like a princess.
and my time will come given time.
insyaAllah.
i get goosebumps whenever i see weddings pictures,
expecially the solemnization.
because i am so happy for the couples who are beginning a new journey of their life.
every love story is very sweet and touching.
and reminiscing about mine,
makes me grateful to have experienced it.
honey,
how do you think you score?
=)
