it was only after watching a movie that it make me blog about this.
life is uncertain.
why do i say that?
look at it,
address can change,
names can change,
status can change,
wealth can change,
family composition can change,
gender can (be) change,
fashion changes.
by now,
you should get what i mean right now.
you can never be certain of anything but of one thing,
which is death.
death is certain.
most grow old and die,
while some didn't even get a chance to grow old.
another thing which is uncertain about death is when will you die, how will you die.
as we can see,
things can change but what are guiding us to be 'constant' are social norms and one's own beliefs.
like you don't do some things because you think you might be judged differently.
things happened naturally only at the beginning,
afterwhich efforts are required to keep it going.
take for example,
falling in love.
it happened naturally,
feeling grew, sparks can be seen.
however after a certain period of time,
the feelings become constant and sparks are on and off.
that is when efforts are needed to keep it alive.
people yearn to be appreciated, to be motivated to keep them going on in life.
so what movie did i watched that made my brain think?
500 days of summer.
the show was good!
i don't mind watching it again!
i like the way how it was narrated and the way they use the flashback.
what is nice is that it's a story about a couple,
and that they look sweet together and they have fun together.
of course joseph gordon-levitt made me smile to myself.
a simple charming guy.
his dressing is nice and his smile can just light up my mood.
haha!
and there was a part where he danced!
what a treat!
so what is love?
if you were to say it is all the nice gooey feeling,
maybe that's partially right.
because if you're in love,
why are there still arguments?
i think love is to incorporate another person into your life and find ways to adjust to it.
