the thoughts on love

since yesterday,
i wanted to blog something about the partner but i couldn't because it seems whatever i wanted to type out doesn't feel right.
no words could express.

as i was walking to work today,
i thought hard.
i thought about love.
i came to a conclusion.
love is a cruel game.
it never fails to make you heartbroken.
at some point of life,
i think almost or can i say all of us had to go through heartache.
my advice is only love when you're braved to get hurt.
love is a risk.
it's either you break their heart or the other party break yours.
i think it is only when you're fated to be with that person,
you'll know that the both of you won't give up and you're grateful to the Almighty that He has given you a partner despite their flaws.

i think the keywords to sustain a relationship are grateful, appreciate, acceptance & change for the better.

you got to be grateful with what you have and make the best out of it.
because if you're grateful,
you would shower him/her with your utmost love and treat them like it's their last day on earth.

people want to be appreciated so that they know that they are important in someone's life and that they made an impact.
in life we can't have everything.
it is only when you learn how to appreciate it,
you will feel blessed.

your body.
you can't change them unless you go for surgery.
thus you got to learn how to accept their physical flaws.
however for character,
it can change.
thus you can try to motivate them to change into a better person.
remember,
motivate doesn't use force.
it's a gentle push to make someone believe in themselves to change.

have a thought about it.
this is just my view,
no right or wrong answers.
feel free to share your comments.
=)


dear my husband-to-be,
i just want to say that knowing that you're excited about the wedding makes me extra excited.
it's about the connection we had isn't it?
i felt something lighted up.
or am i just falling in love with you all over again?
keep on being sweet hun.
i'm addicted to it.