happy belated birthday, updates

happy belated birthday puan rubiah!

i had a good dinner with his parents and him to celebrate his mom's birthday!

they always bring me to laughter whenever i'm with them.

we share the same date, 22nd!

and less than a month to 22nd dec!

i can't wait for my sweetheart to implement his plans.

and it's 43 more days till our first!

honey, i know you've already planned what to get for me.

heh.

i've read 2 blogs regarding break-up.

and it's a sad thing that it have to happen.

i'm sure it's never easy to get through it.

i've been in that phase twice.
kinda shitty.

well, er no, it's very shitty.

the person you love leave/dump you due to unexplainable reasons.

it's like losing your phone for those who loves talking/smsing,

it's like losing your books for those who loves to read,

it's like losing your stationeries for those who loves to draw.

i can rattle on and on.

but i think you get the basic idea what i'm trying to get to.

your basic need is lost when you break up.

and instantly, you will feel helpless and melancholy.

mixed emotions will surround you,

you feel angry, confused, sad at the same time.

your mind will be asking you thousands of questions that you can't answer because you think the other party has the answer.

i know how it felt.

and i pray that i'll never need to go through anymore breakup.

for those who are going through it,

look at it this way,

if both of you are meant to be, you will still be with each other in the end.

look forward, don't dwell.

put away those things that remind you of him/her.

spend more time on yourself.

indulge in things that will make you happy. (cause you deserved this 'hardwork' of getting through)

don't ask (what should i do to prevent it? why did he do that? etc...)

it will just bring you more heartache and make you feel lousy.

wait until you are really well, when you're mind is functioning well, then you reflect what's your mistakes. (but it doesn't necessary means blaming yourself. i'm sure the other party has his/her faults that contribute to the breakup)

have more confident of yourself.

self-confidence makes you beautiful

as a couple, both must have the same goals that they work towards to.

and they should have the same definition of the word "relationship"

that was why i asked my boyfriend what was his definition of a relationship.

if it wasn't the same as mine, i wouldn't choose him.

last semester, my team mates did a presentation on initimate relationship.

the powerpoint slides are prepared by me.

basically it's about communicating.

some slides may seem so wordy because i've editted it to add in more info.
scroll down and click on it to see the slides.

i hope it helps.

being in love with someone is good.

but being in love with the one is marvellous!

honey, you never left my mind and heart.

i love you so deeply.