=D
stay happy and very cheerful always!
and so i've sent the partner's mom a birthday wish through sms.
and she replied that the most rewarding present is for a mother to have obedient and respectful children.
insyaAllah cik.
can't wait to have dinner with them in a while!
well definitely,
i'm not a mother yet.
but i understand what she's trying to bring across.
if i'm a mother,
my heart will be broken if my children are rude and ignore my advices.
it's like you give what you got to bring up a child and the end result is that he/she just doesn't appreciate what you've been through.
but then again,
there's that children and mother barrier.
mothers do not fully support what the children wanna do.
there will be consistent naggings to avoid you going out, doing this, etc.
children wants their own rights too, unless they are truly obedient kids who never question.
honestly,
i still think that as children,
we are supposed to listen to them and try to make them happy.
because after going through a lot,
perhaps they just want to be appreciated and "rewarded".
i think every mothers' wish is to bring up their children correctly and in an environment filled with love.
so "rewarded" in this sense means that what they did to bring us up is some sort the correct way.
when i'm a mother in time to come,
i also wish to have good obedient kids.
(let's just hope that my children are able to read this in the future)
away from mothering,
so after the 2 hours of total concentration,
i head out with an easy heart knowing that i've give my best and happily that i'm gonna meet the partner for lunch!
on the other hand,
let's hope the crampos won't be occuring tomorrow.
please. please. please. please. please.
the partner has 3 additional babies
*shakes head*
i've tried so hard to refrain him.
and he even said "honey, once we got our house, i'm gonna take this out."
me: "huh? take out?"
him: "take out of the boxes and display it"
*rolls eyes*
i think when all the toys are out of the boxes,
i'm gonna experiment with all of them.
twist here, there.
turn this, turn that.
because of the 3 babies,
he got himself a toys r us star card.
-_-
he has become a 'daddddddd'.
and he was so excited about it because he can save.
ok wait,
i need to look at it positively,
the card has no expiry.
sooooo...
we're gonna save a lot if we have to buy presents for the kids!
what kids you say?
*closes eyes visualizing*
our best friends kids.
and also our kids.
time's ticking....
i'm gotta refresh and get change!
=)
when it was time for us to part due to his duties,
the partner cheered saying "yay honey! i'm going to see you tonight!"
yes yes honey,
see you sooon kiddo!